Friday, 29 June 2012



A quick update:

Rob and I split up on Tuesday.

I am fine,the boys are fine, so is Rob. I am going to keep the blog going, but an obvious recovery period will be needed.

Hope to catch up with your posts soon.



  1. Oh blimey, love. Thinking of you and your boys. Take care and here's my email if you want to get in

  2. Hi lucy,
    I am thinking of you. I know you'll be ok. Despite the cheese, I relate to a lot of the words in that song!
    I probably sound all trite, but this is a new path for you and I wish you lots of happiness on it. Break ups are incredibly hard, but sometimes they make us anew and put us back in touch with who we are and what we want.
    I hope you are ok and i think you will be. Hugs to you. xxx

  3. I'm sorry Lucy, hope you're okay. You know we're here for you if you need a friendly ear. xxx

  4. oh lucy! am so sorry - hope you are all ok and am thinking of you.x

  5. I'm very sorry to hear that you are going through troubled times, Lucy. All the best, I'm thinking of you.

  6. Oh honey, I'm sorry.
    Keep in touch. Sending you all tons of love. xxxxxx

  7. It's so hard to split with someone - whether amicable or otherwise - when you've shared so much of your life with that person. Will be thinking of you Lucy and hoping you're doing okay. Just breathe and take the time you need - we'll all be here whenever you return.

    Jem xXx

  8. oh no! You poor thing. Whenever some one breaks up I really feel for them, I think I remember my own heartbreak. Take care! xxxxxxxxx

  9. So sorry to hear that Lucy. You know you’ve got your blogging friends, as well as the real-life ones, to talk to.

  10. I'm so sorry Lucy. Call me if you want to chat. Obviously I know you have real life support, but the offer's there, if it's at all helpful to speak to someone who doesn't know all the ins and outs and know the background of your relationship . I know breakups are bloody hard, and don't feel under any obligation to read or comment or reply or whatever to people's comments, blogs or emails. Just take what time you need for you. I'm sure some of our other wise blogging community will be/have been along with better words, but I am thinking of you.

  11. Lucy what do I say? I'm sorry~ breaking up sucks. Sending you a big ole hug and hoping to talk soon.
    Love you tons~

  12. You're probably right to not publish comments. Anyway, I just wanted to add my voice to the many and say how sorry I was to read this. A lot of people who read this blog will be thinking of you all and sending lots of good wishes.

  13. Glad to hear your all doing ok, my thoughts are with you during this complicated time in your life, Kat xx

  14. Hey Luce,

    I'm sorry you are going through this tough time. I'm sure you have lots of 'real' friends and family to help you through... but if you ever need to debrief with someone far, far removed (both literally and figuratively) then please don't hesitate to email me any time - I can be a great sounding board and I pretty much hate/fear all men, so will give you a completely supportive, totally biased and utterly profane 100% on-your-side friendship, if that's what you need.

    You'll be ok. Big hugs, Sarah xxx

  15. Oh amor ...
    Lots of hugs to you and kids.
    Let me know if there is anything you need.

  16. hello ... i do worry about you ... but not too much !

    the question is ... how will we know what's going on in the world of ponty's cafes and charity shops if you continue this negligent lifestyle ?

    am i to be forced to google "charity shop blogeresse from pontypridd" and discover your alter ego living in a gothic castle up in the clouds across the valley ?



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